You will need to find patience when people treat you differently because you are now disabled. This is not right and you think it will not happen to you, but I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news, it will happen to you. Probably not all the time, but every once in awhile. When it does it will feel like you get punched in the gut at least that is how I felt. Because there comes a point that your disability just becomes a part of who you are. If you are newly disabled this might be difficult for you to understand, but I still feel like myself, I just can’t see – much. 🙂 When someone treats me differently I have to call on all of my strength and patience to be nice to then, so work on your patience before you need it.